What would you do if the last person you dated semi-seriously was married with a bun in the oven? What would you do if you never thought of them except when they had some major life-event going on
(that you didn’t find out about until afterwards) or when they suddenly came in close proximity to you (which, again, you didn’t find out until afterwards) Basically I went out with someone AGES ago and never think of him unless something major is going on. First, I feel like I’m going to see him on a date, and then I do…his first date with the person who ended up being his WIFE. Then, one night, suddenly I couldn’t sleep because I was thinking about him and I later found out that at that time he was proposing to said gal. Then I randomly thought of him for a few days (I am so over him so this is weird) and I find out he’s in Israel.
And then, just when I’m about to go on a (first) date with some guy, he pops into my head again. I thought that was just because this was the best sounding guy I had had since the fellow in question. Comparisons or something? Anyway, there I am, out on this date, having more fun on a date than I’ve had in a LONG TIME and guess who comes strolling past? Old guy and wifey. WHY? What am I supposed to be learning from this? Its not emotional, it’s not making me nostalgic, it’s just plain WEIRD.
I know everything happens for a reason, but I don’t get it. Suggestions, anyone?